I want to tell you a story.  All true.  My story.

A good friend of mine once said to me, “Why do you have to have your cake and eat it too?  You just can’t do that!”  He was frustrated with me, and I can’t remember why.  We worked together and I think he didn’t like the way I often got away with things that he didn’t feel like he could get away with.  It reminds me of something my wife once told me, “You know what a man will try get away with? … as much as he can.”  I don’t think she was happy with me either when she said that.

I am happily married, and a father.  Somehow, I still want to have sex with other women.  I want to eat my cake and still have it.